Happy Birthday to my Girls - Portraits of Twins

My sweet little twin girls turned THREE today! I can hardly believe how fast they are growing up. It seemed like yesterday they were still in the NICU; all five-and-a-half pounds of them, connected to feeding tubes and oxygen help surrounded by nurses. We made it to three girls! You can stop growing up now.  

Sometimes the phases that toddlers go through (fighting over toys, throwing fits, biting, having accidents, spilling drinks, having no interest in eating, getting out of bed five times a night, refusing to nap and falling apart before dinner... you know that kind of thing) can make for difficult days and long nights... now times that by TWO and it can turn into quite the circus act! I can honestly say that I wouldn't trade any of it for the world. Those moments are small and quickly forgotten amidst the joy, giggles, snuggles, love and pure happiness we experience together. I love these two little angels with all of my heart and am so blessed to have them call me Momma! 

SO, as a tribute to them, today's post is entirely that; my latest portrait session with these two, taken a few nights ago at sundown. They laughed, cried, and toughed it out, walking through pokey fields with just sandals on and not having had much of a dinner. It went ten times better than I thought it would (I made them leave their best friends' birthday party early to catch the good light - dinner consisted of half a piece of pizza, sugar cookies and few bites of cake). Thanks for letting me capture the essence of who you are and just how much you love each other. These photos mean the world to me. 

Happy birthday girlies!  

Love you M & E .

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Tips for Taking Great Photos of Kids

Kids are one of my most favorite subjects to photograph. They are energetic, happy, hilarious and they don't care what anybody thinks. BUT, every once in a while, those adorable, joyful, carefree kids get tired, hungry, bothered, bored, mad, sad or frustrated. Any one or combination of those can turn a hopeful photo shoot into a no good, very bad day for both the child and the parents. If you are prepared ahead of time, you can capture great candid shots of kids with shining with their best smiles.

These are my seven tips for getting great photos of kids:

• Don't let the kids feel pressure of having to smile and behave their absolute best, or else. Everyone wants perfect photos of their kids, which usually leads to enormous amounts of stress. Be cool and calm and make it a fun experience; make it an adventure, and not a threat.

• Get on their level. When I start a session with kids I always find ways to relate to them and find out what they are all about- favorite movies, characters, toys, treats, music or anything that puts me on their side and not another adult making them do something they might not be that excited about. It's okay to let them bring a favorite toy. When you get them talking about things that make them happy, you're bound to have a few genuine smiles. Become their friend! 

• Get them laughing. When parents tell kids to smile for the camera or say cheese, they quickly remember why they don't want to be there. I love having a sibling or parent behind my camera making funny faces or telling inside jokes to get them laughing! Families know how to make each other laugh even if one of them is grumpy. If I'm the only one working for a smile, I have no shame in being silly to get someone to smile.

• Bring assistants to help you out. By this I mean TREATS. I always carry a pack of Skittles or M&Ms for a quick reward- especially for those that might be too young to reason with. If the water works and tantrums have started, they usually will at least sit still and savor a small treat for a few happy seconds. A toddler chewing is better than a toddler screaming 😂. I also bring bubbles (what kid doesn't love them) and if I know a baby will be there, some kind of toy that makes noise to get them to look up at the camera. This can be a huge help!

• Try not to force it. If they aren't happy or cooperating just take a break and let them play! I'll have them explore the location and get their mind off of photos. I get the best candid shots when kids are in their element; exploring, running, playing and laughing. Mix things up and get them moving, let them be themselves. 

• Give the parents a heads up before the shoot to make sure their little ones are fed and well-rested. Even the happiest of kids fall apart if they are being told to sit up and smile at a stranger when it's well past nap time. My photo shoots of families that have young kids go much better if they are in the morning or after nap time. 

• Kids can easily sense tension. If a parent (or better yet both) is stressing out, help them relax and have them let you take the reins. Bring the fun back to the shoot, let the kids be themselves and just have a good time.

Taking pictures of kids should be a fun experience, not a terrible one. Take your time and relax, trying your best to allow them to have fun. If they think they are just in a new place, exploring and getting to play, you will get great genuine smiles and really good candid shots of kids!